Weblog

Thursday, 25 September 2008

  • Is it Murder?

    At the 1994 annual awards dinner given by the American Association for Forensic Science, AAFS President Don Harper Mills astounded his audience in San Diego with the legal complications of a bizarre death. Here is the story:

    "On 23 March 1994, the medical examiner viewed the body of Ronald Opus and concluded that he died from a shotgun wound of the head. The decedent had jumped from the top of a ten- story building intending to commit suicide (he left a note indicating his despondency). As he fell past the ninth floor, his life was interrupted by a shotgun blast through a window, which killed him instantly. Neither the shooter nor the decedent was aware that a safety net had been erected at the eighth floor level to protect some window washers and that Opus would not have been able to complete his suicide anyway because of this."

    "Ordinarily," Dr. Mills continued, "a person who sets out to commit suicide ultimately succeeds, even though the mechanism might not be what he intended. That Opus was shot on the way to certain death nine stories below probably would not have changed his mode of death from suicide to homicide. But the fact that his suicidal intent would not have been successful caused the medical examiner to feel that he had homicide on his hands. "The room on the ninth floor whence the shotgun blast emanated was occupied by an elderly man and his wife. They were arguing and he was threatening her with the shotgun. He was so upset that, when he pulled the trigger, he completely missed his wife and the pellets went through the window striking Opus.

    "When one intends to kill subject A but kills subject B in the attempt, one is guilty of the murder of subject B. When confronted with this charge, the old man and his wife were both adamant that neither knew that the shotgun was loaded. The old man said it was his long-standing habit to threaten his wife with the unloaded shotgun. He had no intention to murder her - therefore, the killing of Opus appeared to be an accident. That is, the gun had been accidentally loaded.

     

    What do you think? Is this murder?

Thursday, 14 August 2008

  • Are you happy?

    I went to my mothers for dinner last night, in my room I found an old journal.  This is an entry from 6/20/04:

     

    I used to dream about my wedding day when I was younger.  I can still see it in my head.  I had the whole event planned down to the color of the napkins, and then all of a sudden my dreams came crashing down around me and I've been buried under the rubble for the past five years. 

    After M and I broke up, I didn't have the desire to be married anymore.  I thought the whole idea of it was bullshit.  I wasted 6 years of my life with the same man and had my heart broken.  I wasn't about to make the same mistake again. 

    But now, 27 is fast approaching and I'm still jumping from guy to guy before any of them get too close.  The only ones I let in a little are the guys that I have no future with or can't have a future with. 

    I don't want to do this anymore.  I want to be in love again.  I want to wake up in the morning next to a man who I couldn't bear to be without.  I want to be able to come home from work and have someone to hug and kiss and tell how my day went.  I want someone I cant talk to no matter how serious or how wacky it may be.  I want a nice house in a nice neighborhood with good schools and a family.  But no matter how bad I want all of this, I don't see any of it happening.  All I see in my future is A growing up and getting married while I'm alone waiting for her to visit me with my grandchildren.

     

    That was a little over 4 years ago.  And although I am in a serious relationship (3 years in October) and live with someone who I love more than myself an our relationship is great and exactly what I described in my journal, I still don't know if I'm happy.  I mean really happy.  I still feel like I am missing something in my life. 

    Are you perfectly happy and content with your life?  Or do you think that after every wish we wish for comes true and every goal that we set is met, that we will still want more?

Tuesday, 22 July 2008

  • Banks

     I hate banks!!!  Who the fuck do they think they are that they can screw up YOUR account by cashing checks WITHOUT your signature and then tell you that you have to wait 60 days to get your money back!  Does this sound normal to everyone but me??? Am I the only person that thinks there is something wrong about this?  UGH 

     

Friday, 18 July 2008

  • Hmmm....

    I have just revisited the blogworld  after 2 months and read my only post which stated "I am officially a blogger" before I deserted this site.  I want to say that I am too busy to blog but unfortunately that isn't the case.  I feel like I have nothing important to say that anyone else would want to read!  And my incessant need to please everyone is ever present.  BUT, I have decided I will give this a try.  Mostly just to alleviate my friends and coworkers from having to hear my bitch fests, at least you guys have a choice to read or not to read, which is exactly why I decided to do this.  I guess it doesn't matter what I write, if it interests you, great, if you agree, even better but if you don't then don't read it!  It's as easy as that. 

Friday, 16 May 2008

therealmeisvanishing

  • Visit therealmeisvanishing's Xanga Site
    • Name: therealmeisvanishing
    • Gender: Female
    • Member Since: 5/15/2008

Weblog Archives

Don't worry - your calendar is here… to see it in action just click "Save" above and refresh the page.

About Me

[no info]

Pulse

therealmeisvanishing has no pulse!...

Recommended